Do you really like your current job? 🤔
Do you feel happy to get up every morning to go and do this job that gives you a living?
It is a subject that occupies the minds of most of my clients. Many people feel lost: they know that they don’t like or no longer like what they are doing today and that they could do “something else” but they don’t know what.
Suddenly their discomfort turns into physical suffering: “lump in the stomach”, “altered sleep”, “palpitations on the way to work” …
However, finding what you love to do and what you are made for doesn’t require mobilizing an entire investigative team 🔎.
Signs and clues are all around you if you take the trouble to pay attention.
That’s why I would like to share with you today, 3 Preliminary Coaching Questions I could ask you if we worked together, to help you reconnect with your passions and start envisioning a new career that thrills you – and this for years and even decades to come.
1 . What area are you good (if not very good at) almost every time? 🏆 We tend to identify our weaknesses rather than our strengths. However, cultivating its strengths takes us further than seeking to improve the negative points.
✔️May you feel insecure about talking about yourself, but find it easy to speak up in defense of others? Perhaps in the event of a conflict at work or at home, you are the one who has the right words to restore dialogue?
✔️When do you learn quickly and easily? Ask your parents and friends what activity they intended you to do when you were a child?
Sometimes we don’t realize our talents because their presence has become second nature to us. However, they are there and relying on them makes us stronger. ➡️ Look for those situations in which you feel comfortable, even very comfortable, they put the finger on your natural strengths.
2. What activity do you immerse yourself in so much that you can’t see the time passing? ⏱
✔️Contrary to what you may have heard about work (“you have to work hard to be successful”, “no pain, no gain” …), a successful career is above all “fun”! Take a look around: Great entrepreneurs are people who have fun, are in their element, and enjoy doing what they do. They are invested in their mission, present, creative and their enthusiasm is contagious. No doubt: they are fully themselves!
✔️ You know those times when you should make that phone call or write this report but you start doing … something else. What do you like to watch, to consult? Travel blogs, cooking recipes, movie reviews?
What you do “when you’re supposed to be doing something else” is a huge indicator of your interests.
➡️ And you, at what times do you feel the most enthusiastic, the most yourself?
3. What were you passionate about when you were a child? What activity are you in today in your “element”? 🌟
✔️ When you were a kid, did you like to play lego, climb trees or collect fossils?
✔️And today, do people come to you to ask for advice on their CVs or job interviews? Or to talk to you about their married life? The topics your loved ones contact you about is a good indicator of your natural talents and the problems you know how to solve.
When was the last time you experienced this outburst of grace where things seem to go smoothly and naturally? That day when you felt the right person at the right time.
➡️ Do not forget an important thing: just because it is easy for you, it is not that it is not a real gift that can help and make others admire!
What we do with passion leaves clues! 🧡
Finding our life mission is not supposed to be a difficult mystery to solve.
It is a smooth and simple process that comes to us naturally.
Of course, passion takes work and discipline. It requires moving forward, always staying curious, taking steps to cultivate this passion and make it grow.
So which topic is worth enough for you? What aspect of your life, what project makes you feel the energy and the desire to work fervently to move forward and continue to explore it?
Sometimes we just need help:
– to remove fears, resistance and blockages that prevent us from accessing it.
– and to realize that we deserve recognition, love and success, for ourselves and for others. Because our success is generous and the more we are aligned, alive, connected, inspired, the more we inspire those around us. You don’t have to do this alone!
You feel blockages, you need help to get back to the center of your life, contact me .
Last modified: December 20, 2024